
This is for all the fellas (no homo). From a young man to another young man. Hear me out, when I say you gotta treat your GIRLFRIEND relationship like its a marriage. We (myself included, yeah I admit) may have gotten it twisted along the lines thinking that it was a fashion. And that means, ALL strings should be cut off. We gotta treat it as a marriage, as if it's serious as a heart attack. And shoot,IT IS. Lot of us KNOW that when we ask that chick out, that ONE day ya'll WILL break up. We go into it neglecting the fact that there is a HIGH chance that the relationship won't last. And thats where we need to stop ourselves and DIFFERENTIATE. You need to decide" am I willing to make this girl my GIRLFRIEND, to take this relationship serious, be dedicated, honest at all times, loyal, and give it my all?". If you just asking her out, cuz you like her, and you wanna date. Don't waste her time. But if you want love her one day, get married and all the rest.
Please, take it serious. And make sure you never slip. Yeah, you might make your mistakes, but MAKE SURE you only make them ONCE. After that first time, think, and ask yourself if you want to get up again, and be focused and give it your all. OR decide if your not ready for a relationship and you still want to experience, and keep it real with her. Tell her, "well I slipped up, I do like you, but maybe I'm not ready to commit." And go about with your party hardy ways. But don't waste her time. I have a few experiences that I learned from and trust me. Take my advice. Stop trying to make every and any female your girlfriend. If you like her, get to know her, be her friend first for a period of time. Then if shes what you want. Pop the question, "Will you be my girlfriend?". Don't rush it. I know it sounds corny, but this method will help you prevent a broken heart. And she will respect you more as a man. This was just a random bit. But remember, if your gonna take a girl serious, TAKE IT SERIOUS. If you're not, don't even ask her out.
No one said dont date anyone, just watch who you take it SERIOUS with. Remember your young, and these decisions are crucial. Our generation has the, "MULIPLE-EX syndrome" and it needs to stop. Plus too much of us are cheating, and slipping up. And I'm talking from experience, and I've learned my lesson. So just hear me out. And if you're on the phone with her, telling her you love her, or you wanna be with her, CLEAN OUT YOUR CLOSET. You know the closet. It's right next to the one where you keep all the girls you text on the side, or the girls you only talk to between 6 and 9, the ones who email you pics, or the girls that have NO clue you have a girl. Clean it out.
I hope you take my advice, I will take my own. Have a blessed day my brothers, and WEAR A CONDOM. Help your mom out around the house, and if your unemployed, find a job, or take your ass to school. You can get financial aid, and if you can't get that, try to get a scholarship. Sorry for rambling, I sound like the daddy you never had, so IM OUT, PEACE!!!